How does one succeed in life?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

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Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Had strong anxiety, heart palpitations, headaches and fear randomly over twin flame presence, 20 mins later he didnt acknowledge me saw a photo of a girl on the back of his phone faced up. Assume it was a new gf. Was this a warning of seperation?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

How did you cope when someone you love, dealing with hyper-independence and trauma, felt they needed space to heal alone? Were you able to support them without overstepping, and did you eventually reconnect? How did that journey unfold?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Hangs out with loser friends.

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How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

That's it for today.

Is it just me, or do we all hate Sasuke from Naruto?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Procrastinates a lot.

Why don’t people show patriot Donald Trump the respect he deserves? He’s successful in business, politics, and with the ladies.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

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How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

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If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

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Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

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What I need from you?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

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Does not procrastinate.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Making more friends is a goal.

Why do men find women with bigger buttocks attractive?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

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Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Why hasn't Japan legalized same-sex marriage?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Ask yourself:

Losing 20kg is a goal.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0: